The Burger Bar Days: A Beginning

The Burger Bar Days: A Beginning

We are Anna and Fred.  In August 2016, we decided to spend every last cent we had (and didn’t have) to take a two month break and travel to Northern California to spend time with family.  We needed change.  While driving around one day I thought, “I wish I could just...
The big sleep question

The big sleep question

When will I sleep again? One of the most difficult adjustments to becoming a parent is the sleep – as in lack of.  One of the great things about being an adult is that you can sleep when you want.  Of course we have things to wake up for like jobs and exercise,...
I need to because I want to

I need to because I want to

I wrote this about two years ago, funny interactions with my then nearly three-year-old. …During an outing to the beach recently, my nearly three-year-old was assisting with the packing up and I noticed him collecting a bucket full of periwinkle shells.  He...
Wait! I’m going without myself!

Wait! I’m going without myself!

I recall standing on a London underground train platform at the age of 23, with tears welling up in my eyes because I had just returned from a sunshine-filled holiday in my home country of South Africa.  A return to dull weather, a dull job, a dull commute.  This...
Working mom: dealing with the mommy guilt

Working mom: dealing with the mommy guilt

I am a working mom.  My love for my work and my gratitude for being able to get up every day and do what I love is only marred by the guilt that comes with my choice to not be with my children 100% of the time. I have chosen this.  I suppose I could argue that in some...